When imagining a wedding, most people initially think of the physical elements of the party. Much time can be spent pondering “What will I wear? What space will I host the wedding in? What color palette will I choose?” Unsurprisingly, many photographers focus mainly on these commodities. They feature beautiful images of perfectly decorated tents and table scapes, expensively dressed people, posed just so for a portrait, and beautiful, exotic places.

Yet years from now, is that the record that you will desire? Will you want a hyper curated story about a place that was paid for and things that were bought and how perfect someone could make you appear?

What photos will you truly cherish from your wedding day? Would you like to remember the moment you and your partner embraced and burst into tears after your wedding ceremony because you were so overwhelmed with joy for having, and knowing, and loving each other? What about a photo of your sister sitting with your grandmother, who was too feeble to dance, on the edge of the reception, holding hands and whispering to one another? Or a picture of your best friend weeping during the toast she lovingly gave for you?

Stories are what I look for when I photograph weddings — moments that are subtle and fleeting and full of emotion, much like the course of a life.